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April 16 2005
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The Stay-at-Home Mom Myth

 
Mother and Baby

Many psychologists and parents are concerned that the time mothers spend away from their babies while at work diverts the ability to be sensitive to their babies' needs and to provide cognitive stimulation to their children. However, a study has proven this theory wrong, revealing whether or not mothers worked during their child's first three years of life had no effect on their child's social and intellectual development.

These findings bear great significance, for more than half of American infants have mothers who are employed at least part-time during their child's first year of life.

Deflating the Myth

To draw this conclusion, researchers analyzed 24-hour diaries of time use from more than 1,000 mothers of infants. Videotaped observations of mothers interacting with their babies--to measure how sensitive mothers were to their children's needs--were also examined, and mothers' homes were visited to observe the quality of the home environment.

Data showed:

  • While working mothers spent less time with their infants than nonemployed mothers, they compensated for it by spending more time with their children on weekends and less time on other activities (i.e. housework, outside organizations, etc.).

  • Mothers who spent more available time with their babies (whether employed or not) were slightly more sensitive and provided higher quality home environments.

  • Mothers' personalities, beliefs and family circumstances were more critical predictors of their parenting than time.

Child Development March 2005:76(2):467-482

Science Blog March 25, 2005



Dr. Mercola Dr. Mercola's Comments:

For some reason I just seem to enjoy counter-cultural perspectives as you can see from previous positions:

It seems the myth that work takes away from a mother's ability to be sensitive to her baby's needs and provide cognitive stimulation to her child needed some truth added to it. This study highlights the fact that the quality of time spent with a child, rather than the quantity, is an important contributor toward a child's well-being. However, another variable that is crucial to an infant's overall health and development is breastfeeding.

To me this is so blatantly obvious that it shouldn't even need to be mentioned. But there are many people out there who simply don't get it and are willing to put their own needs ahead of their helpless children. This point was emphasized to me recently when the daughter of one of my good friends called our office for help with her newborn because he could not tolerate the formula he was on because she chose not to breastfeed.

It is not my intent to put down those who can't breastfeed for whatever reason but if one is choosing infant formula over breast milk it is crucial to understand that ANY other option than breast milk is a poor choice. There simply isn't any more perfect food on this planet for infants than human breast milk. I strongly believe that all commercially available infant formulas are a prescription for disaster and will, without question, cause some health damage to your child if used as a substitute for breast milk. The worst is soy formula and, just like mercury-loaded vaccines, I believe it should be banned and never allowed to be administered to any child.

Breastfeeding Benefits

Breastfeeding is not only good for the baby--it's good for mom too! (Women who breastfeed have a reduced risk of breast and ovarian cancers and osteoporosis later in life.)

Breastfeeding is vastly superior to formula and will provide your newborn with all the nutrients they need in order to grow into a strong and healthy child. And in addition to improving your child's long-term brain functioning, breastfeeding could also protect your child's health and build up their immune system.

If, for some reason, you are unable to breastfeed, you can use raw milk along with other select ingredients to produce an infant formula that is superior to any commercially available one.

To understand the importance of quality time, breastfeeding and the various other aspects in caring for your newborn, I recommend reading Attachment Parenting: Instinctive Care for Your Baby and Young Child. This outstanding book delves into the topic of how being a responsive parent and following your natural instincts can enhance your child's well-being.

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Miriam Innes
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Well done for pointing out something that is SO important! I find it staggering how many babies I see with a bottle, from what I  would consider intelligent educated mothers.. why are people so misinformed? What is urgently needed is some promotion on the damage done by formula, not only to the baby's health but to the planet! Ever thought of how many formula cans are chucked away daily?!...

Miriam

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